Spreading Pain
We have heard about spreading love or happiness etc. but have you ever heard about spreading 'pain'? Well, first look at some examples:-
* When you pass out from school or a certain grade and then your school adds more facilities. Oh! how we wish we had had them and feel envy towards those students who will be enjoying them. (this happens in most of the cases.)
* When women (patriarchal) do not support other women or when they force them to follow the same toxic traditions* that they had to, because they didn't have any choice.
* When the society forces people to get married or have kids cause they had to do the same or rather go through the same thing or pain.
From these examples, we find a common factor and that is - people want other people to go through the same pain or suffering that they themselves did or rather had to 'cause the society forced them and now they want to do the same with others. (In most of the cases) sometimes, they don't have a choice (in 1st example), so they can't do anything even if they want to, but when they can, people tend to make sure to spread pain.
In situations like these, are where the terms like compassion, empathy and so on must be practised by us so that we don't make others suffer.